Hello Everyone~ This is a new AWESOME (correction: lame)
section to my FANTABULOUS (correction: relatively normal) Blog! It's a section
where I will give advice to those who ask me. I have gotten some emails so I
thought why not just make a page for it? So here it is! Also for those of you
who want to send me an email asking for advice, please send it to
jennybokcedar@hotmail.com
Dear Jenny,
I'm a guy with a best friend. Problem is, I'm kinda feeling
weird things for him. Like, I'm manly, but I just get so jealous when he hangs
out with other people or does stuff without me. We've had an argument about
this before, because he doesn't give me any attention. But I feel so weird when
I'm around him. Our latest fight, we actually started punching each other! I pushed
him and he fell and hit his head. I feel so guilty about it, but we've never
really spoken since. What is this strange tingling in my heart?
Sincerely, Tater Tots
Dear Tater Tots,
You have a serious case of CLINGY BOYFRIEND SYNDROME. Well
you're in ~love~ with him, not to mention very clingy and protective of him.
When he is close to other guys or girls you get jealous, you're hurt when he
doesn't give you attention, you're happy when he's around you and when he
smiles it brightens up your day (kyaaaa! I'm fangirling so hard right nowww) Of
course it would be hard to accept feelings like this, especially towards the
same gender, but take your time. Even if the two of you might not end up
together and if you don't see any future even if you do, i'd recommend you to
accept who you are and move on. Keep moving forward, there will be someone that
accepts and loves you for who you are, even if it isn't this guy. As for the
guy you currently like, you have two option. One: Push on forward!!!! Make him
realize your feelings without telling him and make him fall in love with you
too, be sure to sty calm and rational, also don't hurt him again. There is a
chance thought that he will be weirded out and you will lose a friend, or he'll
date you. (i'm just stating facts here -3-) Two: Move on!! Shut down your
feelings for him and move on. It will be hard for you but you will still have
him next to you as a friend. I don't really know how to advise you since it all
comes down to what you feel and want to do. Even though It sounds cliche, just
follow your heart
Sincerely, Jenny
Dear Jenny,
Do you have any
advice on how to get guys to like you? Also, how do you get them to not betray
you and/or act like a gigantic douchebag? Lastly, how do you get them to not
leave you for another country without so much as a goodbye? Sorry if this was
emotionally devastating for you!
Sincerely, TOTALLY NOT PALM
Dear TOTALLY NOT PALM,
Well, if you don't want the male to leave you choose a male
who lives in the same country and state as you (someone who is rich would be
great as well, imagine getting awesome gifts, lol) The next part is how to get
them to like you and not betray you. Show them the real you, because I find it
wrong if the male doesn't like you for being you and for being someone else.
Also, show them a side no one other those you trust has seen before, that will
show them that you trust them and that they are special. Show your interest in
them so that they see you as a woman and not just a friend. Don't forget to
show them your womanly appeal as well. Be gentle with them, treat them the way
you want to be treated by them. Don't worry if they don't see you as a woman
yet, pick the right timing and confess, if they say that they only see you as a
friend, make it clear that you see them as a man and want them to see you as a
woman, not just a friend. Before you know it they will be in love with you!
>3<
Sincerely, Jenny
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